Fact: She Lost Her Only Child

Fact: she lost her only child, at a time like this the proper thing to do is provide encouraging words, offer condolences, share memories and pray. It's disgusting and offensive when we profess how bad we're hurting, how we are in disbelief, the tears we've cried and how we just seen the child the other day because the fact is she (not us) lost her only child.

We can't even begin to actually understand her pain, even if we've lost our only child, because the fact is she (not us) lost her only child. The emotions, thoughts, and feelings we have pale in comparison with hers because the fact is she lost her only child. So for once let’s take ourselves and our feelings out of the equation and remember some things are better said/done privately (inbox messages, phone calls, text messages, emails, in person, etc.)

No need for speculations we weren’t there and it doesn't matter right now because we do know the fact that she (not us) lost her only child & she (not us) will be dealing with this from this day until her last day on this earth.