So because Mariah Carey married Nick Cannon you think there's hope.... but then Jada Pinkett is separated from Will Smith so the hope no longer exists !?! Truth is 99% of us will never reach their status of fame & fortune. So why even depend on their life as the status quo? We live in reality not fantasy..... Reality: Our grandparents, parents,aunts and uncles who relationships have weathered the storm of infidelities, gossip, money problems, criminal activities, children issues, jail time, military time and any other losses & gains that mother nature pours down. While they may not be together this day and it may have taken a while many have a cordial relationship, wish each other the best and may even help each other out from time to time. Not to mention they and not the court decide the fate of their assets and children.
Fantasy: Normally lasts a few years & often ends with dirty habits being revealed, scandalous secrets being told, and bitter words being exchanged, not to mention manipulating the system by not paying bills or hiding property to gain financial control over the other.... Reality like love lasts a lifetime.... Fantasy like money can run out any time.
And we say "I don't know anybody that's happily married". You, yes you are a beautifully unique individualistic made creature. You weren't meant to be like anybody else. You are 1 and in reality you could be the 1 to change the game. However in fantasy you are a follower trying to follow in your idol's footsteps.
We aren't our parents; yes we have their characteristics and no matter how hard we try, we will always act/think/ look like them. But by no means will we ever be them. Use their mistakes as a lesson you don't have 2 learn the hard way.
Give love ~ Receive love ~ Love love & love will love you back.
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